Since I work with high school students, I see all kinds of parenting...some I like, some I don't. One of the things I see ALL THE TIME are parents wanting to be friends with their kids. From my seat, it never works out! The kids end up running the house, and the parents are repeatedly telling me they have no control over their kids because they don't want to say no or have their kids upset with them.
The reason this is on my mind, is that this weekend, Jackson has been telling me "you are not my friend," when I tell him no or give him a time out. My response has been, "that's ok...I've got friends of my own. But I will always be your mom and love you." The first time I told him it was ok that I wasn't his friend, he looked a little shell shocked.
As my kids get older, I pray that Dave and I will always remember that we are their parents, not their friends. It's ok for my kids not to like me. I always have their best interest at heart, and will always love them.
So Jackson and Addison, I'm ok with not being your friend. I promise that you will not always like me, and that's ok. We will not always agree and you will not always like your options, but I will always be here for you and will forever love you!